I am currently waiting for post 666
Its difficult i know but i am now at post 518
Not a whole lot of entries to go.
But when i do get there, i will post a timeline or something.
I read in the apper today about an online guide by a Teenager about the strange behaviour of teenagers to adults
She has also dissed the 50-year old pycologist claiming that they have already forgotten youth -snickers- and they have no business writing books about teen behaviour.
You know what, i really think she has got a point.I have been prone to pick up a few help books for parents,its basically the same thing, teenage years maybe the hardest BLAH they want their freedom BLAH listen BLAH
Its correct in essence,i have yet to read the teens version of the help book but what i have grasped from the article is that parents really have to listen.
REALLY UNDERSTAND
There is a difference between listening and hearing. You hear,and you can brush it off.You listen and you gain understanding.
This means NO COLD WARS,or rebuttles or stamping your teen down because you weren't listening.LISTEN,even if all they are doing is shouting at you.
And do not forget that you were young once,maybe the memories have faded to oblivion or whatever but i guess its really essential not only to remember the time when you were perfect during your youth but also when you were imperfect.
Although sometimes,our parents do try our hardest,somehow we can always ALWAYS manage to turn the situation around.I don't know,but we do. It takens an effort on our parts as well.
BAH.
I plan to be a nutritionist.
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